Social Media and Thanagar

There are many pressures to confront as a teenager.  Social and educational pressures of school life, perhaps pushing, accepting, accepting and accepting a school for another, to study, to make family happy with your progress, all possible persistent beliefs.

  Then, of course, there may be stress on home issues, family worries, problems with siblings and personal issues for adolescents;  Uncertainty about yourself, uncertain about yourself, compare yourself with others, fear of being lost.

  Social media is a natural part of life for many people whose statistical information is regularly registered on its consumption.  Analysts say that we check our mobile phone every 12 minutes and spend an average of 3 hours and 15 minutes on the Internet every day, mostly on Google and Facebook-owned sites.

  While it's valuable to the outside world, it's a worrying aspect of the Internet, and especially around the social media, which causes concern about its influence on adolescents.

  Social media can be a force for good or bad.  Certainly the chat rooms and forums can be a great place for someone who feels friendly and alone because there is no one to talk about how they feel.  Confirming, the answers to people's problems facing similar problems can prevent adolescents from being different, separate and feeling alone.

It can also help us tap into unexpected audiences, reaching people who we have never been able to introduce in their introduction and as a result, their friends  Social media has the potential to talk to a large audience, which is a community of people with similar thinking.

  But there are other aspects of social media that are not so rosy.  Need to be cautious.  Living in a virtual world where we are constantly checking our phone will explain to us that online is the real world where the things we see and are told are true.

  That's why it's important;

  - Choose who to follow with caution and identify what their agenda might be.  Be cautious of the dangers of being prepared by someone who claims to be not or what they are, encourages you to do things that are not comfortable with you.  Or maybe they are aiming to be an influential, linked to specific products, are slowly recommending and recommending specific goods or services, betting new followers and essentially running sales peaches.  Take action back and see what's really going on.

  - Remember that it's your call, you can stop following if you want.  If something is not comfortable with you now or you are unhappy with what you're seeing regularly, you can choose to discharge it and stop it.  And if the posts appear which you do not like, then the problem affects you negatively or you're upset about trusting your bowels and blocking them.  It's your device, your media is streaming;  Close the door and do not let them inside.

  Set up an online limit for your time and use that time more efficiently.  Yes, you will see your online family as a real, key element of your life, as a real and supportive relationship.  This is the only place where you can get yourself and you need to keep it in your life, but real person-to-relationships is also important.  Many people work, shop and manage their lives more quickly, so they can provide less and less reason to leave the house.  But to relate, to communicate with others, to develop social skills, to understand themselves better, they need some movements from devices and engagement in face-to-face communication is essential.

  - Meet others individually and experience the naturalness and diversity of life.  Involve personal development and development by accepting things that may not work well at times.  You can make mistakes, reject, look stupid.  It's good, it's part of life and is an important way of being developed and mature as a person.

  - Take charge and do not decide to spread negativity and gossip on your social media feed.  Commit to share just good news  You can imagine that one person can not make a difference to himself, but when we take every single stand we can sprinkle the sunlight in the world's small corners.  Be the person who shares positivity, good results and happiness.  Influence, perhaps in a small way, feed your social media, your world, your audience.

  - Outside your comfort zone.  Join a class, a gym, a group.  Regularly visit similar places and you will find that you start meeting similar people.  To try, use smart dressing as soon as possible - to start immediately - a different set of essential skills in modern day life.  Challenge yourself every day.

  Similarly, you have found your place and have been adapted online to keep the tattoo world offline, and it allows you to know a lot of people who share your concerns and insecurities equally.  See how others behave, take some suggestions and tips, so learn different ways of contributing to the conversation, increasing your social skills and delivering more confidence in every field of life.

  Susan Leagh, counselor, hypothetist, relationship counselor, writer and media contributor help in relationship problems, stress management, confidence and confidence.  She works with her personal clients, couples and provides corporate workshops and support.